General Information


New Horizons is a membership only club for couples residing in the Pacific Northwest. Member couples may bring guests on a limited basis. Couples residing outside the area may attend as guests. You must be 21 years of age to attend a party at New Horizons. See our Membership and Guest Policy pages for more detailed information.

New Couples and Guests:

All couples who have never been to New Horizons before must attend an orientation prior to attending a party. See our Orientation page for more detailed information.

Party Fees:

Regular member party fees are typically $85 per couple. Higher fees may be charged for special themed parties such as New Year’s Eve and Halloween. Check the upcoming party descriptions for information on special pricing and see our Membership page for more information on party fees for associate members and guests.


Reservations are strongly encouraged and are required for a number of our larger parties like Halloween that sell out quickly. See our Reservations or Contact Us  page for information on making reservations.…


Weekend parties are limited to member and guest couples only. Members may attend without their partners however attendance is not guaranteed as we keep the male/female ratio even for every party. Attendance ranges from perhaps 80 couples on a slow night to over 200 couples on a large night like New Year’s Eve.

Most weekend parties have live music, typically rock bands. There is no formal dress code however the typical dress is sexy casual. Most parties have a theme: The Luau Weekend at Labor Day, Halloween, St. Patrick’s Day, or Mardi Gras which also provide an opportunity to come dressed based on the party’s theme. Multiple night parties are organized around most Monday holidays. 

Friday parties start at 6:45 PM and Saturday/Sunday parties start at 6 PM with a MANDATORY Orientation Tour for all new couples and guests. Our buffet dinner is served at 7:30 PM (8:00 PM Fridays). Everyone is invited to bring a bottle of wine or beer to enjoy with dinner- no hard alcohol is allowed.

Please note that the gate is closed and the doors are locked at 11 PM so if you will be arriving late, you must notify us in advance so arrangements can be made to allow you entry into the party. The full party fee will be charged no matter how many hours you spend at the party.

You’re welcome to spend the night on weekend parties and receive a continental breakfast served the next morning at 9 AM. The party is officially over at 11 AM. Sleeping room spaces are by reservation only. If staying overnight, you will need to bring your own bedding and pillows.

Wednesday nights are Pot Luck nights where members are encouraged to bring a dish to share. The doors open at 6:00 PM and the pot luck dinner starts around 7:40 PM. No alcoholic beverages are allowed and there is no live entertainment. These parties end at 1:00 AM with no overnight stay permitted.


Exploring Erotic Touch!

An Erotic Touch and Massage Workshop at New Horizons

This workshop will celebrate the joining of both genders in a fun, spiritual, and erotic atmosphere. We will use touch, massage and imagination to awaken the connection between erotic energy and spirituality and between the feminine and masculine in ourselves.

Bring a partner or come by yourself. When we honor our bodies and connect from our hearts, we can explore new places of erotic freedom. This workshop will combine touch, massage, verbal communication, non-verbal communication and experiential rituals to deepen our erotic exploration. This is an introductory massage that will hopefully lead you to continual exploration of Eros. You need not have prior experience in erotic massage but must attend with an open mind and an open heart. For purposes of this workshop, erotic touch will not include intercourse.

Want to heighten your level of eroticism men? Then we encouraged you to refrain from ejaculation for 48 hours before this massage workshop. All participants are asked to refrain from the use of alcohol or recreational drugs prior to and during the massage evening.

All materials and supplies will be provided for you, all you will need to bring is your lunch, a sheet and towel for the massage table. This full day workshop is only $30.00 per person. The workshop will begin promptly at 10:00AM and end at 5:00PM.

The workshop facilitator, David Longmire, is a Body Electric School trained Sacred Intimate and has worked with spiritually based erotic energy for the past seven years. David helps facilitate the Erotic Massage evenings at the Wet Spot, facilitates daylong workshops each month, Exploring Erotic Touch and has a private practice in Sacred Sexuality, Erotic Touch and Erotic Massage.


An Erotic Photography Workshop at New Horizons

Join Boudoir Northwest for an interactive erotic photography workshop on Sept. 3rd! Learn how to use that digital camera you got for Christmas, have fun using the equipment provided, or get brave and be a model. Whatever your pleasure, you’ll be sure to have a fun, informative, and sexy afternoon taught by an award-winning professional photographer.

The afternoon includes several activities:

  • A discussion about erotic photography, including plenty of great original images presented on a big screen. We’ll talk about how great erotica is created, and how you can do it yourself with the camera and computer equipment and software you have. We’ll also learn how to think critically about and appreciate erotica.
  • A hands-on photo shoot, using your camera or ours- complete with lights and props. There will be a specific assignment for the shoot, and we would like to have a few of our participants be the models. If you model, you’ll get a complimentary 8×10 print of yourself!
  • An “experimental” erotic photography session, which is very interactive, in true-to-form New Horizons style. Whether you participate or shoot, this activity is guaranteed to be hotter than the lights…
  • In the last hour of the session, we’ll put all of our images onto a big screen and review the erotica we’ve created.

What you need:

  • Bring a camera if you like- it must be digital. Also bring your flash card. If your camera uses media other than CompactFlash, bring your card reader for the computer. Or, use our cameras!
  • If you’re going to model, bring some different outfits- as wild as you like- that you’d like to wear.
  • Bring any props you’d like to use- and we mean anything!

What you’ll receive:

  • Four hours of erotic photography, taught by a professional photographer
  • A $50 discount for your sitting fee at a personal boudoir shoot by Boudoir Northwest, good for six months
  • Models will receive a complimentary 8×10 of themselves, or a digital copy on a disk


About Boudoir Northwest:
Boudoir Northwest LLC is a professional studio providing a variety of glamour, sensual, and boudoir images for couples and individuals as well as mature content for various clients. Sergeo Solareal, our lead photographer and founder, is an author of a highly successful photography book and has taught numerous workshops. He has photographed everything from fashion models to the Olympic Games, and his work has been shown at the Seattle Erotic Art Festival, presented in galleries worldwide, and collected by many erotica enthusiasts.

Note: No photographs taken at the workshop can or will be taken or used outside the event without the express, written permission of the model(s). Model releases will be offered and provided, but are not required by anyone. If you’re modeling, we’ll assume that you do NOT want your photos shown outside this event unless you tell us otherwise.…